Sorry Messages for Your Best Friend
Fights with a best friend can hurt more than a breakup, because they know you so well. The good news: real friendships usually survive an honest apology.
For small fights
Hey, I was out of line yesterday. Sorry. I miss talking to you.
I was in a bad mood and you got the worst of it. You did not deserve that.
Sorry for making it about me. Tell me what happened, I am listening this time.
After a long silence
I know I disappeared. Life got messy and I handled it badly. I am sorry I left you wondering. I would love to catch up if you are open to it.
I have started this message ten times. I miss you, and I am sorry for letting so much time pass.
When you broke their trust
I shared something you told me in private. That was a real betrayal and I am sorry. I understand if you need time before you trust me again.
I chose other people over you when you needed me. I see that now. I am sorry, and I want to be a better friend.
How to reach out
- Keep the first message short and easy to answer.
- Do not bring up who was more wrong.
- Suggest something simple, like coffee or a call.
If you cannot message them, write a letter to their first name. Some friends find it months later, and that is okay too.
Questions people ask
What if my best friend blocked me?
Respect it for now. A letter they can find on their own gives them the choice.
Should I apologize even if they were wrong too?
Apologize for your part. It often makes it easier for them to own theirs.
How do I start the conversation again?
With something small and honest, like 'I miss you and I am sorry'.
